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gameinfo:table_ettiquette [2022/07/11 14:05] – [...and now a PSA!] restlessgameinfo:table_ettiquette [2025/06/05 16:05] (current) – [The top rule: don’t be a dick] restless
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 Let's not call it a "social contract," let's just call it etiquette so everyone has fun. Let's not call it a "social contract," let's just call it etiquette so everyone has fun.
  
-===== Rules of the table =====+==== Rules of the table ====
  
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 === The top rule:  don’t be a dick === === The top rule:  don’t be a dick ===
  
-{{ :images:meme:dont-be-a-dick-just-be-nice-its-that-easy-quote-1.jpg?direct&120|Don't be a dick.  Just be nice, it's that easy.}} If you sum everything up to this top rule, we'll likely get along fine.  We're getting together to play a game together and enjoy one another's company, this shouldn't be hard.+{{ :images:meme:dont-be-a-dick-just-be-nice-its-that-easy-quote-1.jpg?direct&120|Don't be a dick.  Just be nice.  It's that easy.}} If you sum everything up to this top rule, we'll likely get along fine.  We're getting together to play a game together and enjoy one another's company, this shouldn't be hard.
  
 If you have to get a lot of clarification on what is involved in being a dick, or want to split hairs on what might be dickish, you //just might// want to look within on this one because I suspect you truly have the answers to this if you dig deeply enough.  Coming at this in bad faith is a dick move, after all. If you have to get a lot of clarification on what is involved in being a dick, or want to split hairs on what might be dickish, you //just might// want to look within on this one because I suspect you truly have the answers to this if you dig deeply enough.  Coming at this in bad faith is a dick move, after all.
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 === Phones are okay, but put them on vibrate === === Phones are okay, but put them on vibrate ===
  
-If you need to take a call or text a lot, please step away from the table.  It's distracting to other players and if it becomes a problem you'll be asked to leave the table and/or game.+If you need to take a call or text a lot please step away from the table.
  
-Note that during play your turn will not be held if you are away using your phone, you will just be assumed to be doing nothing other than passively following the rest of the party.+Note that during play your turn will not be held and will just be assumed to be doing nothing other than passively following the rest of the party.
  
 === What happens in the real world stays in the real world === === What happens in the real world stays in the real world ===
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-===== Just... don’t =====+==== Don’t.  Just... don’t. ====
  
-=== Rules lawyers suck, period, full stop === +{{page>rules_lawyers_suck}}
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-So do most of the [[dict>stereotypes_gamer|gamer stereotypes]], but [[dict>rules_lawyer|rules laywers]] are //by far// the worst.  Just... don't.  (He who lives by the sword dies by it.  Repeatedly.)+
  
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-=== Being pointlessly edgy, running an antisocial character and playing “evil” characters in general === +{{page>edgelords}} 
-{{ :images:meme:AllEdgeNoPoint.png?direct&150|Don't be that person.}} +{{page>biwmcwd}}
-We're all here to have fun and play a game.  For some it's not fun to have someone else in the party who is edgy or brooding //just// to be edgy or brooding, or going around stealing from party members, attacking them or causing trouble with NPCs.  (I'll admit it's not fun for a lot of DMs, either.) +
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-I know you're supposed to roleplay, but having to watch your back against the world and compatriots or suffer the consequences of someone who is random for no purpose but their own edification is just... exhausting.  [[:gameinfo:table_ettiquette#the_keyword_is_respect|It's also not fun.]]  At the table, let's agree that the party are all allies and we //**hunt**// the monsters, not //**be**// the monsters. +
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-=== “But, it’s what my character would do!” === +
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-Think about it.  Then think about it again.  Then think some more.  [[#dick|I can't really think of any situations where using that phrase to defend your character's actions is valid for a friendly game.]]  If you still insist, then //[[#edge|play another character]].// +
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-===== ...and now a PSA! ===== +
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-[[dict>#old-school_gaming|Old-school gaming]] can be a bit brutal.  For instance, if you can't handle that character fatalities can and do happen or feel like mapping isn't necessary then this may not be the game for you. +
  
-===== Not all games are for everyone =====+==== Miscellaneous and sundry ====
  
-When a new player joins a gaming group it's a bit like dating:  sometimes the fit is right, sometimes it's not.  Even though this is intended to be an [[dict>open_table_game|open table]] game with a shifting cast of players who may be regulars, play occasionally or even only once, we all still need to get along.  If you are not enjoying the game style, old-school rules or just another player, let's talk about it.  I suspect we can come to some resolution or understanding that is acceptable.+{{page>a_psa_for_old-school_gaming}}
  
-However, the reality is that if we can't work it out maybe this just isn't the game or group for you.  Trust me, no gaming is better than bad gaming, and life is too short to do something you don't enjoy.  I want to game to have fun, and I want everyone at my table to have fun!+{{page>not_all_games_are_for_everyone&notags}}
  
  
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Trace: • Elevator pitch

Millennial D&D: “We are heroes out to save the world, and also save ourselves from all this sexual tension with the NPCs.”